Now I can't tell a lie,
it's all a blur,
not really sure
if you're a blessing or curse
And the only truth that i've ever known is
And the only truth that i've ever known is
when you're telling me your lies (your lies)
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DEFINE LIE; a false statement made with deliberate intent to deceive; an intentional untruth; a falsehood.
From all the lies that have been told,
hearts have been broken,
friendships ruined,
people angered and disappointed.
Sometimes, you think that a lie is better than the truth. It's not. Sure, the truth DOES hurt. But, finding out that someone didn't tell you the truth, WILL hurt a lot more. Take this as an example -
you have really strong feelings for someone. you tell them those feelings you have for them and in return they tell you they feel the same way. But in reality, they don't. They just can't hurt you and think it'll be better if they don't tell you the truth.
you have really strong feelings for someone. you tell them those feelings you have for them and in return they tell you they feel the same way. But in reality, they don't. They just can't hurt you and think it'll be better if they don't tell you the truth.
But just take that as an example. I'm not saying it'll happen. Think about it. When would it hurt most - the beginning or end? i don't think i should have to answer that..
What makes them think that it's okay to lie when it's not? And why is it when they get away with one lie.. the lies follow after.. Don't they have something better to do than cause trouble for others?
What makes them think that it's okay to lie when it's not? And why is it when they get away with one lie.. the lies follow after.. Don't they have something better to do than cause trouble for others?
DEFINE TRUST; to have trust or confidence in; rely or depend on.
Trust is hard to gain, but easy to lose. Ever heard of that saying? Well, it's true. You can disagree with me or whatever, but from personal experience? It took ages for me to trust someone, afraid of what would happen if they gained it. It didn't take TOO long, but a fair amount of time. Getting to know them before trusting them. And with a click of a finger, all that trust in them went away. All because of the lies they told...
I never thought anyone so close to me would ever lie. Especially about love & friendship. But i guess they taught me to be more cautious when i comes to trusting someone. Maybe TOO cautious. But then, that one guy came along into my life and showed me that i could trust without being hurt. Thanks baby. (:
I don't think there's much to say on honesty. But, i just want you to know that everyone should be treated fairly. Treat someone the way you want to be treated. So, if you want them to be honest to you, be honest to them in return! I shouldn't have to say this. It shouldn't have to be hard. Honesty is a good quality in a person, so wouldn't you want to be?
♥Little S
6 comments:
Sometimes we have to lie a bit though D: white lies i guess....D: telling someone they're fat won't really improve your relationship with them :P but yeah nice post :D haha i only just figured out that my google account has other uses besides facebook :P
hmm yeah. white lies.
but that only goes up to a certain extent.yeah, but telling them they're skinny wont help too. so you gotta find a way to work round that. =| iunno..
LMAOO XDD silly jason!
Hehe just say no :3 then when they ask for detail, tell them you aren't a very descriptive person :P
hahhaa ;P or u could tell them that no matter what. skinny or fat. everybodys gotta exercise and stay fit!
I have a friend who will tell you that you look terrible if you are wearing something/did your hair in a way she does not approve. She also told me and a friend we looked better now than we did in some of our other photos. It was hilarious and admittedly, I was quite taken aback at her... frankness. She is awesome though. <3
You know, you chose something EXTREMELY hard to write about. For most people, complete honesty is hard - people cannot always know themselves completely, they will choose to omit things to protect themselves/others and there is also differing values at influence the perception and telling of lies.
However, while the truth may hurt, telling a lie is incerdibly disrepectful in a sense - becuase while it does hurt, people are not as weak as some think. Plus finding out that something important (like friends/love) has been false would shatter you. D':
But I think to a certain extent, lies can be forgiven - if they are not told with malicious intent or just out of cowardice. And those people who suck up to people.
ANYWAY. END RANT. D:
hahah (y)
I understand that complete honesty to hard for people. It's hard for me too. This topic on lies is really debatable. They both end up hurting either way. truth hurts. lies hurt more in a sense seeing as not only u were given a false opinion on something, you were being lied to by someone you possibly trusted. haha so i agree when you do say its shattering. =|
i agree with ur rant :P haha. There's not much for me to say to it. but, i think if you asked people whether they would rather the truth or a lie, they would say they'd want the truth.
I didn't take all those other things into account when i was typing this as i let my anger get in the way ><
(btw deleted. ur repeat post for you ;P)
thanks for your input :D
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